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What Is Mental Clutter — And How It Sabotages Your Day

An overwhelmed lady with a big to-do list is letting mental clutter sabotage her day.

What is mental clutter, really? When your brain’s racing and you can’t focus, this hidden clutter is likely to blame — here’s how to clear it.

Mental clutter is sneakier (and messier) than any junk drawer which is why it sabotages you.

If you’ve ever wondered why decluttering never seems to stick, I talk more about that in this post, Why I Can’t Declutter — And What to Do Instead.

While physical clutter piles up in corners and closets, mental clutter lives in the background — draining your focus, stealing your peace, and making even simple decisions feel like a chore.

Let’s talk about what mental clutter actually is, how it shows up, and why learning to clear your mind might just be the missing piece in your decluttering journey.


What Is Mental Clutter?

a stressed out lady in her car with busy thought loops around her head. This is mental clutter

Mental clutter is the invisible overload of thoughts, emotions, worries, and expectations that crowd your headspace.

It can sound like:

  • “I should have done more today.”
  • “Why can’t I keep up like other people?”
  • “I need to start decluttering… but I’m too tired.”
  • “Everything feels like too much right now.”

It’s not always loud. Sometimes it’s just a low hum — a constant sense of tension, pressure, or unease that makes it hard to focus or relax.

How Mental Clutter Sabotages Your Day

Here’s how this kind of clutter quietly messes with your life:

Decision Fatigue
You’re faced with so many tiny choices (what to wear, where to start, what to keep) that your brain checks out entirely.

By the way if you are sick of spending time and money on clothing and getting dressed you may want to consider a Capsule Wardrobe. Declutter Clothes & How To Start A Capsule Wardrobe is an article I wrote for people needing help decluttering their wardrobes.

Thought Loops
You replay the same worries or regrets, over and over. It keeps you stuck in yesterday or anxious about tomorrow.

mental clutter can be an exhausted stressed lady

Low Energy + Motivation
You’re exhausted — not from doing too much, but from thinking too much. The weight of all those thoughts is heavy.

Avoidance & Overwhelm:
Tasks that should take 10 minutes suddenly feel insurmountable. You freeze, scroll, or walk away.

It’s no wonder decluttering a room feels impossible when your brain is already juggling 47 tabs — most of which are playing some version of “You’re falling behind.”


Why Mental Clutter Blocks Physical Decluttering

You might think you just need more time, a bigger house, or more storage space — but chances are, it’s you that is keeping you stuck. Changing your mindset is the solution.

too many decisions needing to made can cause mental clutter

Here’s why

  • You can’t make clear decisions in a foggy headspace.
    You second-guess every item. You wonder if you’ll regret letting go. You start… then stop.
  • You avoid mess because you’re already mentally maxed out.Even thinking about decluttering feels like too much — so you put it off. (No judgment. This is human.)
  • You hold onto stuff because you’re holding onto beliefs.“I might need this.” “It was expensive.” “Someone gave it to me.”Clearing your mind helps you challenge those beliefs and soften the grip they have.

So… What Helps?

Here’s are the things I reach for when my brain needs to go from Chaos to Clarity…

I made a simple short series of the 3 top things that help me gain clarity and slow down my stressful overthinking. I call this series From Chaos to Clarity.

When you sign up, you’ll get a FREE 3-day email series with the exact mental habits that helped me go from overwhelmed and stuck… to clear, calm, and finally able to move forward. 

Journaling.
Just dump your thoughts out on paper. Forget about grammar, punctuation and neatness, none of this matters.

I write on the paper whatever is jamming up my head at the moment. If you don’t know how to start, write “I don’t know what to write” and keep writing.

Journaling – A Practical Way To Declutter Your Mind

the author's image of a neurographic art line drawing used to relieve her mental clutter

Neurographic Art.
This one changed everything for me. Scribbling out my thoughts in tangled lines, softening the edges, and adding color helps me calm my nervous system without needing to “think it through.”

So for now I am alternating Neurographic Art Drawing as a practical alternative to stream-of-consciousness journal writing because they both bring fast clarity to my brain. In fact some of us are doing a 30 day, 30 line drawing challenge now.

We are dating each drawing and noting how we felt before we drew a line and how we feel upon completion. So fun! This distracts my busy mind for a few moments and brings me some peace and clarity.

I wrote an article about this. Why Use Neurographic Art Drawing For Mental Decluttering

I am finding drawing to be very helpful, at least until I notice Tucker sitting on the other side of the room quiet and trying to eat the cap to the marker. When this happens I make a new intention and restart.

For a step by step guide on how to draw neurographic lines check this out,
Create Your First Neurographic Art Step-by-Step for Beginners.

Movement. Nature. Breathing.

Harvard Medical School claims too A 20-minute nature break relieves stress

Another favorite stress remover is taking the dogs for a quick walk. Other times it’s breathing deeply on purpose.

I find pulling weeds to be zen like. I know, right! It’s not about being productive — it’s about getting back in my body.

Mental clarity isn’t about silencing your thoughts — it’s about giving them somewhere safe to land. Sometimes just a peek at my 2 puppy’s butts wiggling makes me giggle and this breaks the stress pattern!

quick breaks outdoors with my pups clears away mental clutter!

This is what we practice — gently, consistently — inside the Declutterbuzz membership.

If you’ve been trying to declutter your home and nothing’s working…
You’re not failing, your mind is just too full.

Marj Bates is a life long ridiculously organized declutter-er and artist. Less is more are words Marj lives by in everything she does except collecting dogs. “Dogs are like potato chips! Can’t have just one.” says Marj. Marj wonders if growing up with a fanatically clean Jewish mom means her decluttering and organizational skills are in her blood.

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